My bf was on myspace today typing in a msg.. And when I came out to say good morning, he erased the

minimized his myspace account. I asked him what was on the msg and at first he said it was personal. I asked him again, and he said he was asking his friend who is a married female, about relationship advice because we had an argument last night in regards to our past history, which I brought up. Why would he need to hide that, unless it was flirting or something else. He just seems too secretative at times and a good manipulator. I brought up the situation we were having a problem with aoubt 5 months ago, this girl I think he liked, and he always gets really defensive and angry about it. He states everytime I bring up her name it starts an argument. It ususally does not when he is calm about it, which he is not, that tells me he is guilty of something. I dunno. This relationship is way too complicated and has alot of baggage, mistrust issures, but has its good sides too. I see he has changed in alot of ways, in respects to talking to less females, because of trust issues, not drinking

My bf was on myspace today typing in a msg.. And when I came out to say good morning, he erased the msg and?

ALERT!....Either he's real scared of starting an argument....or....wants to cheat. (I think he's untrue)

This is my opinion, based on what you've explained, not a definitive decision making process. You're there, not me.

My bf was on myspace today typing in a msg.. And when I came out to say good morning, he erased the msg and?

Sounds like he may be cheating. Don't be surprised if he is. They always start off hiding things.

My bf was on myspace today typing in a msg.. And when I came out to say good morning, he erased the msg and?

you said enough...you have to get out of this relationship...

My bf was on myspace today typing in a msg.. And when I came out to say good morning, he erased the msg and?

That sounds like something my teen would do because he felt that it wasn't my business. I see red flags here!

My bf was on myspace today typing in a msg.. And when I came out to say good morning, he erased the msg and?

You should probably dump him. He seems really secretive and shouldn't get into fights about stupid things like that. He wouldn't if he really loved you. He seems like he takes things way too seriously and just because you guys had fights doesn't mean that you have to yell at each other and find u new bfs and gf on myspace (he sounds desperate) if he were on myspace flirting with me i would think he was anyway.

My bf was on myspace today typing in a msg.. And when I came out to say good morning, he erased the msg and?

Frankly your whole relationship should be based on trust, without it this type of situation is only going to get worse. If neither of you feel you can be completely honest with the other or think your boyfriend is holding back or hiding something other than a pleasant surprise, I would say you need to re-evaluate your relationship and either get everything out in the open or move on. It will only lead to heartache if your always guessing at his intentions. Better to deal with the mistrust issue now than later.

My bf was on myspace today typing in a msg.. And when I came out to say good morning, he erased the msg and?

Though he is your boyfriend , he could have something personal.

Nobody has all rights to know everything about others. Maybe he wants to hide that coz you may hart knowing that.

As he doesn't feel comfortable don't ask about that girl or something what he doesn't like. Its better for relationship . May be you will find that some good day when he is in a good mood he will explain about that.

My bf was on myspace today typing in a msg.. And when I came out to say good morning, he erased the msg and?

being a man i would lean towards him out shopping on the net, but it sounds like if if is on my space he has it all lined up. follow your gut, they say a woman's first instinct is usually correct

My bf was on myspace today typing in a msg.. And when I came out to say good morning, he erased the msg and?

I think you should trust your gut feeling. You are probably right. Don't play second fiddle, you need to be number 1 if he is the right guy for you. If you are not happy you know what to do.